What my therapist said to think of when i see her worked! It is an image in my head (that's gross to me) that i think of when i see her coming, or i think she's around and i'm able to handle her. Interesting ha?? She tried to talk personal stuff today... wanted to know if i still made coffee in the afternoon like i used to (as if i would start that again!) and she told me one of her cats died and told her i was sorry but i didn't feel the need to say anymore. Yay for me! Keep it up! She has no more power over me!
She has a serious problem with boundaries! You have made it clear that you are not interested and she still approaches you, amazing. You know at that point that it is not your problem anymore, but her's. Good job on coming up with a solution to your problem that works so well!
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