Thursday, September 2, 2010
she's still trying
She just doesn't get it - she tried to talk again today about coffee - asked if i would sell her a cup... I've done that before with another co worker in her dept and she knows it. She is trying to act like another co worker would I guess. But what she doesn't get is I'm not having it! Today When I went to lunch yesterday I shut my office door so she wouldn't get into my coffee - ha ha! I treat her like any other co worker that I dislike - cuz I don't want her to feel discriminated against. She will probably bring that co worker down today to see if I would sell her a cup and then sell her one too - she is pitiful and I don't have time for her... why doesn't she get her coffee from her girlfriend Sarah's office?? and leave me alone??
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Just when I think I am doing well, I have to work on detachment all over again. It just sneaks up on me! Others will do something and I need to figure out why, what did I do to bring this situation on, but that sort of thought just brings me to getting involved far too much. Detachment can come in many forms, just turning off the person in your mind to closing the door or removing yourself from the situation. You are doing a good job for yourself, but, of course, you can't do anything about her behavior. Keep the focus on yourself!
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you are so right kathy! thank you for your support! it is getting easier every day and i hope it continues - i had an interview today for another facility so we will see. i hate to leave my unit but if this is a better opportunity-- so be it!
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