drama, drama, drama

Well I went down for a wedding - even brought items for the wedding is clothes, flowers, table, etc.  But got accused of coming down for a vacation rather than the wedding since we didn't spend every waking moment with them the first day.  So a fight broke out  the first day with a sober group - me and LA and a not sober group K and her clan and it was not pretty.  Her fiance even got in my face yelling obscenities and I was really scared.  So we got the heck out of there and just enjoyed the rest of our vacation since we had so much time on our hands d.t not helping with a wedding.  My friend LA and i just cried - we just have no idea what we have done wrong.  They did not communicate with us for 2 days where they were staying or what the plan was and we just decided that first day to do our own thing because we got in late the night before d/t stopping by to see my brother and my niece.  What a nice visit and I was able to pass down a family heirloom to my niece and I think she was so proud!  Anyways I have not heard from her since - well except yesterday in response to something I posted on face book - she thought i was airing dirty laundry.  i just posted something to 'you know who you are'  - i didn't' tell anything i just said that i wasn't perfect and neither was she and if she can't accept me then i guess we are over, that i still loved her, am happy for her and wish her the best.  She said I should have called or texted this - i said that i don't mind airing 'dirty laundry and people who know  me know that i am messed up and just say pretty much anything.  I am so sick of people telling me what i should and shouldn't do, speak, think or feel.  What made her think that I could even count on her to answer the phone or message after not communicating with us in florida and considering how ugly it ended?.