Sunday, March 6, 2011

still having issues with the boss

I had therapy this week and talked the whole time about the boss - and she just is unable to give me what i need.  She is just not that kinda of boss.  My therapist and i agreed that i would just try it for six months and move on if i want.  She is not, as i have said before, a warm fuzzy person but sometimes she can be downright rude.  But i has seen that it is not with just me, so i have to just learn to accept it or move on.  My therapist said i need to get my warm fuzzies elsewhere with other co workers who can give it.  And i have been trying a little bit and that's going okay.  I even shared with my consultant the difference i see in my boss at time of hire and now and she said she would pass this along anonymously to the higher ups - it may backfire on me but i had to say something.  This company is supposed to be different!!!  Oh well i just had to get outta where i was. I am supposed to focus on the residents, the praise i get from their family and warm fuzzies from my co workers.  Go to work and do the best i can and if it is not good enough then this was not the place for me.  But i hope it is because i do like it... So there it is that's what i am where i am at today...

2 comments:

  1. Everyone has different styles of management. Work is work and there are negatives and positives for every work place. This is the way your boss is, if she behaves the same with everyone as with you. Look for a change if you just can't stand it any longer. Do you think you are looking for more than she needs to offer as a boss? Are you happy there, other than not getting the needed feedback? I think you are on the right track...focus on your job, your patients and do your job as best as you know how.

    I hope you have a better week!

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  2. yes i am sure that i want more than anyone can really offer as a boss - that's just old childhood stuff creeping back in my daily life but i hope i recognize it sooner than i did before and -move on!

    how are you kathy - did you find work yet? i can't find your blog so i figured you got busy with your new life and all... hope all is well!

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