she's still trying

Today the bloodsucker came by again and I believe the statement of the day was 'you're punishing me by not talking to me'  - I thought and what did you do to me?  But what I told her was the same thing I did yesterday - I am protecting myself.  Of course she did that old 'look me in the eyes' bit - which I passed with flying colors.    I am still so angry with her but not yet ready to talk with her yet.  She is trying and she is very trying!  I know she is hurting from her lastest escapade but that is not my problem - she is not my problem.  Using her verbage:  'you're f------ adult!'.  I haven't decided how long I am going to 'punish' her as she calls it all I know is I am not ready for it.  My husband could just kill her but he is letting me make the decision as to what to do with him watching.  Tomorrow I meet with my nurse practioner maybe she will have so good ideas on how to deal with all of this till I meet with my therapist next week.